Got questions about fostering? Below are some of the questions which people often ask us about fostering and being a foster carer.

Got more questions? Please get in touch!


What is fostering?

The purpose of foster care is to provide a safe and stable environment for children who cannot be looked after by their own families. Fostered children stay with their foster carers until their own families are able to look after them, which can vary from a few days or until they are 18 and over depending on the needs of the child.

Why do children go into fostering?

There are lots of reasons why children go into foster care. Sometimes they have been abused or neglected by their parents, or other times their parents have an illness which means they need to be looked after on a short-term basis. We exist to support the children in these situations.

What is adoption and how is this different to fostering?

When a child is adopted their legal relationship with their birth parents ends and all responsibilities for them are transferred to their adoptive parents. When a child is fostered, however, their birth family carry on being their legal guardians. Foster parents receive extra support which adoptive parents don't, such as financial allowances, on-going training, and 24/7 support from social workers.

What are foster care agencies?

Foster care agencies, such as Parallel Parents, are private companies that work in partnership with Local Authorities in order to place children and young people with foster carers.

Why choose Parallel Parents instead of a Local Authority?

Parallel Parents offer foster carers better personal support than Local Authorities are able to because our social workers have fewer foster carers to support. We also provide better financial allowances (up to £500 per week per child you look after), give our foster carers paid holidays and breaks, and train our foster carers regularly.

What are foster care allowances?

Foster care allowances are given to foster carers in order to practically help them care for the children they look after – and reward them for their hard work. If you foster with Parallel Parents you can receive up to £500 per week, per child you look after. This is usually tax-free and doesn't affect any benefits you already receive.

Does a criminal record prevent me from being a foster carer?

Having a criminal record does not necessarily prevent you from becoming a foster carer – it depends what your convictions relate to and how recently they have taken place. Each case is individually looked at when you apply.

Do I need to be able to drive?

Just like any child, fostered children need to be taken to school, go on outings and visit their family and friends. Being able to drive makes all this a lot easier, but if you cannot drive fostering is still open to you as long as you have good access to public transport.

What checks are carried out for me to become a foster carer?

When you apply to be a foster carer you will have a criminal record check and a medical assessment. We'll also request a check from your Local Authority and will get references from your friends, family and employer.

How long does it take to become a foster carer?

It usually takes about six months to become a foster carer. Once you have been approved you could have your first placement the next day but it's more likely that you'll wait a few weeks for the right child for you and your family. For more information on the process of becoming a foster carer get in touch.

Can I foster if I'm not originally from the UK?

If you're a non-EU citizen you need to have indefinite leave to remain in the UK in order to become a foster carer. If you have lived in the UK for less than five years we also need to complete criminal record checks and other background checks from your previous countries of residence during that time.


What’s included in the ticket price?

Unlimited food, unlimited drinks, live performances, and great entertainment including henna stalls, photo booths and casino games.

Do you need to be Indian or Hindu to attend?

No, there are absolutely no requirements for attending the ball - the event is open to everyone.

What food will be available at the event?

All food will be vegetarian, and we will aim to cater for other dietary requirements such as vegan as well. There will also be a wide selection of snacks and desserts on offer!

What is the dress code?

Traditional or black tie. Traditional Indian dress usually includes sarees, salwar kameez or lehenga for women, and kurta tops, sherwani or dhoti kurta for men.

Will there be a cloakroom?

Yes there will be a cloakroom by the entrance (use is included in the ball ticket).

Will I get a refund if the ball is cancelled due to COVID-19 restrictions?

Yes, all ticket holders will be refunded at least 90% of the ticket price in the event of cancellation. We will aim to offer full refunds if possible, but this depends on any costs incurred.

Will I get a refund if I have to self-isolate during the ball?

Yes, you will be offered a full refund if you can provide evidence confirming self-isolation status for the day of the ball.

General Refund, Resale, and Transfer policy

In any other case, refunds will not be granted. Tickets can be resold on the QPay marketplace by downloading the QPay app, however tickets found to have been resold at a higher price than that which they were bought will be cancelled. Tickets can also be transferred or details updated by contacting us on Facebook, Instagram, or by email.

What COVID-19 safety measures will be in place?

Hand sanitizers will be placed throughout the event, however the wearing of masks and practice of social distancing will not be required. Depending on government requirements at the time of the event, COVID-19 vaccine passports or proof of a negative test may be required.

What should I do if I have any allergies or dietary requirements?

Please put any allergies or dietary requirements in the box when buying tickets. If you have not done this, please let us know of them by contacting us on Facebook, Instagram, or by email.

What access measures are in place for people with disabilities?

We aim to accommodate and ensure a great experience for everyone. If you have a special disability or any other requests please contact us so that we can cater to your needs as best as we are able to.

Can I get a discounted bursary ticket?

Yes, if you are eligible for the full amount of the UK maintenance loan or any other full-bursary criteria, please contact us. If accepted, we can offer a discounted concession ticket for £35. If you have already bought your ticket in one of the early bird ticket releases and are eligible for the bursary ticket, please contact us and we can offer to pay the difference.